am i wrong?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hi there . i currently confused . im now currently with a guy . but previously im with my ex for 1year plus. i know my ex for 8 years . but lots of things happened between us . girls were flirting him . as so , i felt jealous because girl were sending him message with muacks etc . then i was very close with his buddy . at that time , he did not talk to me . left me aside . and i realised that i was very close with his buddy . as one day his close buddy confessed that he have feelings for me . when my ex noticed that we were very close . he felt jealous too . n i did not bothered him . and there's was a day his buddy asked me out . we did not tell my ex . so he found out n broke off with me . after a few days his buddy wants me to try out this relationship with him . so i agree . yes i admit i have a crush on him . now we were together for around 4 months . all this while i still miss my ex . all my friends said that my ex reactions still sort of still liking me . i ever told my ex before i still like him . but that was few months back . we hardly talked . but we did smile . i'm regret for the decison i made . i don't want to let this relationship go . as i does not want to hurt my current boyfriens . i love both . but i think i love my ex more .
It's not unusual to retain feelings for an ex.
Especially one you have known so long. My guess is that if you contacted your ex and talked with him you would both discover that you still care for each other.
Remember to treat your current b/f considerately in doing anything.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com