How Can I Make this better and/or work?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I am in love currently with the girl of my dreams. A few weeks ago, we did some things that we weren't supposed to do (sexually) and her parents caught us. They have told me that they never want to see me again and that I was never to see their daughter again. We have contacted through e-mail, and she is starting to feel uneasy because her parents keep pressuring her. I know she still loves me and wants to be with me, so what can I do to make this situation better and work? I have tried to talk to her mother, but she is too stubborn and keeps telling me she never wants to see or hear from me again. Her father, in the beginning, was trying to work things out but can get nowhere with her mother. I need some serious advice on what to do here. I love this girl with all my heart and soul and we did have marriage plans, but as of right now they are completely stalled. Will you please help me?
You've tried all the usual things but with no success.
Your next step is to write a long letter to her parents explaining how sorry you are that they had to discover you in intimate behavior. Promise, if you think you can, to not engage in that behavior again. Tell them that and your g/f have marriage plans and that you value her daughter more than anything else in the world. Ask them to open their hearts and give you a second chance.
Call the parents the following week and ask if they have had a chance to read your letter and what their reaction to it is.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com