It lasted a month then she broke up i need her back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
hi there, i met my ex online and we started going out. we fell in love with each other instantly and things started moving at a fast pace, we discussed marriage and moving in together, she told me that if i asked her to marry me tomorrow she would say yes, she told me she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. Im a naturally insecure guy as i`ve been treated bad in past relationships. im 21 she`s 17.
last week she said she needed space to think about things, as much as i tried to leave her alone she would IM me telling me she couldnt leave me alone then we would get into long conversations and i would tell her how much i wanted to get her back (big mistake) she now says i didnt give her enough time to think, i pressured her, and talking about marriage and stuff freaked her out!
as most of you know you can talk about things without actually "doing" them im not wuite ready to get married yet! she ended it by telling me it will never work between us, last night was the last time i contacted her to talk things through, she is adamant that it wont work but she says she still loves me. What should i do? she`s the girl i see myself growing old with. Should i be apathetic towards her and make her come back?
She knows you love her and want her back.
So, why not give her a month with no communication and see what happens.
If nothing happens, call and ask her if it would be ok for you to call once a week for 15 minutes just to see how she is doing and remind her that you still care for her.
Hope this works out for you! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com