Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I have been talking to this guy on AIM for about 3 months. He is 16 but he is turning 17 in november and i barley turned 15. Ww go to the same school, and he alwaz says he wants to say hi to me or he wants me to say hi to him when i see him cuz we have 1st and 6th period right next to eachother and we see eachother after school and at lunch. well i know when i see him a freeze and just walk right past him and he has told me the reason he doesnt say hi to me is becuz he gets nervous. i know he MIGHT have an intrest in me becuz just the other day he came to sit with me at lunch to talk....well i was REALLY nervous...but okay and today on his myspace he put on his headline "2 odds make an even" which is something i alwaz tell him. Well we both know we like eachother but we do not know how to go about at school. I want to make him feel comfortable with me and i would really apricate some tips on cute fun things i could do to say hi to him or to start a conversation with him out of the blue...okay thanx in advance
The first step is to become comfortable saying hi in the hallway.
It's very easy... look him straight in the eyes, say in a clear voice "Hi" plus his name and give him a big smile. Do this everytime you see him. Both of you will lose your shyness about talking.
Make up nicknames for each other like "cutie pie" so you could call him CP in public where nobody would know what it means. Of course, you should tell him what it means before calling him that.
Here is a webpage that gives advice on what to talk about:
Good luck! George
-- from George
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