Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hey. i am going to get to the point. my ex had decided to cheat on me and immediatly assume i will still be her friend. the only reason that i come into contact with her now is because of a mutual friend of ours. but everytime i am around her i have a hard time enjoying myself because she is always acting childish by being overly controling of everyone in the room. any suggestions to deal with this without causing a scene.
also there is a girl at school who i have become attracted to , but what i am worried about is that maybe i have trouble now trusting people. i dont want to get into a relationship and not be totally there. any help would be greatly appreciated
Problem 1: you can't control your ex's behavior so you are either going to have to learn to ingnore it, or just leave the room when she is acting out.
Problem 2: the best advice I have is to refer you to a helpful webpage on trust: http://www.coping.org/growth/trust.htm
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com