i want her back
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
im in a situation i really dont want to be in me and my wife are getting divorced i dont want a divorce, here lies the problem i had an anger problem nothing physical but alot of yelling and doing stupid things that drove her away i know the divorce is my fault, im going to counceling to help me let go of my past, i have tried everything i can go win her back but she keeps saying she needs time to heal from what i have done to her, i want to give her the time she needs but im lost without her, i believe she is my soulmate the only one for me how do i win back my beautifull wife... please help me
You could try to convince her to go to a counselor together.
You could try to convince her to have a separation instead of a divorce. This way she could monitor your behavior to see if you are really changing or just reacting to the immediate crisis.
It can't hurt to give her flowers and candy (dark chocolate).
If there are children involved show your tenderness and caring to them so your wife can see that you are changing. Point out to her how divorce may hurt the children.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com