What should i do, I want my ex back.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
OK,me and my guy have been on and off for almost three years. We have been through it all. I feel so right with him. He has went out with other girls and i have went out with other guys. We have stayed best friends the whole time, and i love him with all my heart and i know he loves me. Before we went out last time i told him not to ask me out unless he was ready to, because i was tired of going out and breaking up. Well, he asked me out when he was ready. It was wonderful. Everything was perfect. i have never been happier. We went out for about 7 months. Around new years he started to act weird. I know him better than anyone and we are always honest with each other.he was acting different and for once wouldnt tell me what was up.Well, of course we broke up about two weeks later.And as i felt he was "starting" to have feelings for one of his ex's. But he told me he sisnt want to date her or anyone else, he just wanted time to be single.But it hurt so much, she was calling him and always all over him when he thought i wasnt around.This girl os one of the most cruelest girls i have met. She want me out of his life completely but knows that is not going to happen, but she tries so hard.Well, time goes by and i feel like he just going away, so i try to have fun and all.I actually got a boyfriend, but for the wrong reasons,i got the boyfriend to help him get his ex back, which it work. My ex found out and was really mad,and the next day started going out with that girl.I told him the reason and he just said he wishes he had told me that before.This girl doesnt want us to hang out and she yells at him and everything if i am ever to close or anything.We actually got in our first fight ever in our realationship because i was upset because she came in our class and started to lean all over him, i left and started crying,and later we got in a stupid pointless argument and he said, fine, dont call me. I didnt of course and he ended up calling me back and said sorry and all.He still tells me he loves me every single day.He had already cheated on this girl four days after going out with her.I am actually the only girl he has never cheated on beacause he knows i think cheating is unforgivable and that we wouldnt even be friends if he did.He cheated on her with me, we kissed,i know i shouldnt have but i got caught up in the moment and he just grabbed me and kissed me.I keep telling him he needs to quit, he has a girl.He wants to do more than just kiss and as much as i want to i refuse, because i know its wrong.We kissed again last night.it feels so right being with him.He looked so hurt though when i told him we have to stop.Its wrong, if he is with her he should be with her,not noth of us.All my friends are against us,i understand they hate him because i am so hurt.Its plain and simple,He is with this girl, who he has wrote online that he loves and he tells her he does, he hangs out with her and they kiss,and everything.But he is not his full self with her, i see it is his "fake" person when he is with her.he cute flirty side.Me and him are real,i know it.How do i get him back without looking obsessed and get him back soon.I am tired of al of this and it just hurts.Also, It a couple moths, there is prom, and since my freshman year i have always pictured going with him, if she is his girlfriend then we cant, even thought he still hasnt decided who he is going with.We were set together at the beginning of the year.I just dont want to go through all this pain and since i know he loves me, why is all this happening.How do i get him back and really show him that all of this needs to end.I've tried tons of ways, but i wanna know others, if there are any better.
Tell him what you told me and that you want to be back with him as bf/gf and you want to go to the prom with him.
You may think he already knows this but it doesn't hurt to say it again in a clear way so he can't misunderstand.
You two seem to be well suited for each other.
Get busy, time is a wasting.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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