He's Always Giving Me Hickeys



Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My boyfriend is constantly giving me hickyes. It's not that I don't mind it,it's just that I can't get rid of them. I've tried everything I could think of,toothpaste,ice,and frozen spoons. Do you have anything else that would help?I don't want to draw attention to my neck. I've also been wearing my hair down, but that's a problem because I have a dance recital coming up in the next two days. What can get rid of these hickyes really fast?




RomanceClass.com Advice
A hickey is a bruise, it's skin damage. It won't just go away. I have info on them here -

http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/hickey.asp

but it's like any other bruise, you just have to let it heal.

A hickey is a mark of possession. Your guy should KNOW you belong to him without him marking you up constantly! What's next, a branding iron? If you have issues with these hickeys, then tell him. And if he doesn't respect you enough to be concerned about that, then he needs a reality check. At some point hickeys cross the line between 'fun play' and 'power forcing the girl to go out with a brand on her.' It sounds like he's crossing that line. He can give you hickeys on other parts of your body that aren't as public. If he keeps choosing to put them on your neck, even though it bothers you, you have to start asking yourself why. A boyfriend should always care about you and your feelings first. If he is delighting in forcing you to go out with bruises on your body, that just isn't right.

-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




Visitor Submitted Responses
Our RomanceClass visitors have chimed in with thoughts on this question and answer. Click on a link below to read what their solutions are!

Use comb

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Del.icio.us Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit
 

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Kissing / Intimacy

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response



Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.
Advertisement


Sparkly Irridescent Glitz Gel

Going to a party or special event? What to feel special no matter what you're doing? Roll on some glitz! Perfect for adding a special bit of sparkle to your day or evening.

Buy Glitz Gel at EclecticLady.com