i want my ex back but she is with someone and she spends time with me?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i dated my ex for one year and i broke it off. she nevr cheated on my and she trusted me and her family liked me. because she did not tell me the truth about her past i broke it off. she is the love of my life and we never talked after the break up. she tried to get my back for more than a year but never directly. i never got over her and saw her after two years and we talked. she told me she was talking with another guy but was not datting. we talked on the phone and the next day started to spend time together and started to go out for the next two days as a couple. after the socond day she told me things were not going to work out on a txt message and would not talk to me for four days.then she told me she did not want to do what she did to the guy she was talking to and they were now going out. she just wanted to be friends.she calls me every 2 to 3 days and talks for a couple of minutes. then on valentines she sends a txt message saying u wanna see me and i called and noone picked up the phone. then she tells me that she just was talking to the guy for 6 months but he was not her boyfriend til now. she lost a baby by his when they were just talking.she now calls me and spent time together but her boyfriend does not know. she tells me she wants to spent time with me and how she always argues with him and that girls call him and he has a baby mama she resently found out about. she tells me how her family does not like him and she does not trust him. she also told me she wanted to spend the night with me and when we were together she asked if i still loved her. how do i get her back.
It sounds like you are doing a good job of getting her back already.
Keep seeing her and talking with her and my guess is that she will be back with you soon. Don't be aggressive because that will push her back to her boyfriend.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com