Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ive been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs. hes cheated on me many times and ive always taken him back. we have a child together and i am a stay at home mom relying soley on his earnings to support me. recently i found out he cheated on me a year ago and something in my head exploded. he doesnt have a clue how i feel. but i have no sexual desire for him, i have no desire to even engage in conversation with him, and dont find him physically attractive.i have tried to break up with him before but never went thru with it bcause he begs and cries and pulls me back in. how should i tell him without hurting his feelings? and how can i follow through with it?..
One way to approach this that might help is to see a counselor.
Either go by yourself or with your b/f. Get some professional advice on how to proceed.
There is probably no way to tell him without hurting him so you are going to hear him beg and plead each time you tell him.
It would make it easier for you to stick with your decision if your were independent of him. If you have a place to go, then tell him that you are going to move there "for a while." If you have the strength, you will be able to make it permanent.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com