I dont understand!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I went out with this girl for only about a month. When we mutually split up as things really didnt work out. We didnt know much about one another and my friends were also getting in the way of things by making up stories of her sleeping with other people and her friends were doing the same. However, since then I just have not been able to get her out of my head. Ive been out with girls for a lot longer than this but. I think about her everyday and I have dreamt about her many times. I thought it was just me being stupid but since Christmas I have noticed her looking at me the way she used to. People have come up to me and said they have noticed the way she has been flirting with me. We also spent a long bus journey together when things seemed stronger than they even did when we were going out. She's a quite shy person and so am I. I really want to go out with her now more than ever, but I am afraid that if im misreading the signals things and I ask her out then what we do have now will go away.
It sounds like she may still be interested in you.
Tell her you are "developing feelings again" for her and see what she says. Maybe you two will be going out together soon.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com