i am crazy about her
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i do not have a girlfriend before but now I like a girl. I m not trying to just pick up a girl. I want to be with her and have a long term relationship. But my problem is I do not know her and afraid to see her and when she saw me I will turn away.The only thing I can do is to walk behind her and secretly admire her.Most of the time she has friend around her.I wanted to talk to her befriends with her but I do not have the courage. she is a good girl she is sweet n the most important thing is she do not have a boyfriends yet which I think is pure.It is a rare chance to find someone like her and i do not want to miss this good chance. we are in secondary school she studied for 4 year and I am 5 year.I still have 1 more year to study in the school but this year is her last year so I only have less than a year time to grab her. Recently I have do some 'Homework' like finding out from monday to friday what time she goes back and who she goes back with and I find out that she sometime goes back alone but sometime with her neighbour which is also study in the same school. I always wanted to take action but I do not know how to. Now I am loss I m crazy about her I keep on think of her the whole day.I really need some advice.Plean help me.
To : All The Friendly Advisors
Faint heart never won fair lady!
If you really want to share a friendship or romance with her you will have to get over your shyness. This isn't as hard as it sounds.
The first thing is to get her attention. If you want her badly enough you will do this. Every time you pass her in the hall or wherever look her directly in the eyes, say in a clear voice "Hi" plus her name, then give her a big smile. Keep doing this until you both feel comfortable saying hi and then you can ask her how she is doing. If you are really brave, you can even greet her when she is with a group of friends.
Once you are on speaking terms with her ask her if you can walk her home and she is likely to say "yes." Once you have gone this far write back for more advice (but don't write more than once a week :)
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com