Do I deserve this?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi George...Its me again, the guy who struggled to choose between 2 mates.
Ok, here's what happen, I sent a rose to A* ( 1 of my mates who I like) on Monday because I was busy on Valentine's day. Anyway, she txted me later that day and said thanks for the rose. On the next day, I sent a txt to A* and said happy Valentine and stuff, I did the same thing to B* but B* never replied. Around lunch time on Valentine's day, I got a txt from A*'s phone, it said she misses me and wish I was with her then. I was very happy when I saw that. Later on the day, I txted her back and said "I missed you too n stuff", she was like...What the heck? She told me that 1 of her mates had got her phone that day...And that hurts a bit, bt it didn't stop there, the next day, some of her mates were joking about the txts thing, it appears that W* ( A*'s mate, a guy) had used her phone on that day... After that, W* has used it against me, make fun of me because of that. I was pretty upset on the last thing days because of that, I told A*, and she said "W* is 1 of my mates and you two just have to sort it out." I thought I've sorted it out, but then A* said she was in a bad mood and keep avoiding me in school, and when she saw me, she barely laughed and just walked away. Then I was pretty upset until I saw B*, she cheers me up all the time, we flirted for hours and we were comfortable with each other.
Did I derserve that? Just because I show a little bit of my emotions, people think its a joke...
And B*, I feel like I'm flying when she's around (just like how I feel when I am around A*). But there's something, her cousin has just passed away and I need to know how to cheer her up...Any advice on that? And what should I do?
P.S. Sorry for this long letter, I'm pretty angry n depressd lately
No you don't deserve it. Nobody does.
But remember that A* has her ligament problems that she is worrying about and that may make her irritable.
If you feel so good with B* perhaps you should spend more time with her and see what happens. It will probably bring A* back looking for you.
You are definitely a good person! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com