Should I say anything to her?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
What's up George.Nothing much here except hard times but let me get striaght to it.As you know Tuesday was valentine's day I was upset that whole day because I realized that I didn't have anybody to give anything to not liked it mattered or not.but anyway that day at school my ex-girlfriend seen me sitting at the lunch table and I guess she could see the expression on my face that I was upset so she came over where I was and told me happy valentine's day. I just looked at her like she was crazy and she walked off. So when she went back and stood in the lunch line she keep on calling my name,and i just keep right on ignoring her.then as my class and I were leaving she walked up to me and bumped into me as if she was giving me some sort of body language.I know she was hurt by what I did but it seems like the only way I can get her to see what she is doing.I wanna call her but then i don't cause I want her to see what it feels like to have me not be in her life.So george what would you do if you were in my shoes. Should I say I'm sorry or something?
It's too bad it happened on Valentine's day because that made it worse.
You asked what I would do. Well I am just one person and my way is not necessarily the right way. What I try to do is always keep the line of communication open.
But that may not be right for you. You know what happened between you and your ex and your feelings are what you have to deal with.
So I can't answer your question except to suggest that you think about it and discover whether you would feel better talking to her or not. Go with your gut.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com