How far should we be?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi, I'm 15, dating a guy three years older. We've been going out for about 5 months and haven't gone too far. I'm just wondering how far we may "should have" gone. I'm quite shy, and he's my first kiss and everything. But now we're getting more comfortable with each other, and we love each other very much.
Also, we haven't really had a fight at all. Is this normal? I heard that people who don't fight don't have enough communication.. but I'm not sure. I see him pretty much everyday except weekends. Please help me on these 2 subjects? Advice
It isn't possible for one person to tell another how far to go.

The most important thing is that you feel comfortable doing what you do and that you don't feel pressured into doing things you don't want to do.

Be happy that you haven't had any fights. It is quite possible that you two are so well matched that you don't fight. As long as you are bothy happy and feel good about sharing feelings then everything is ok.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Kissing / Intimacy

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.