How far should we be?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi, I'm 15, dating a guy three years older. We've been going out for about 5 months and haven't gone too far. I'm just wondering how far we may "should have" gone. I'm quite shy, and he's my first kiss and everything. But now we're getting more comfortable with each other, and we love each other very much.
Also, we haven't really had a fight at all. Is this normal? I heard that people who don't fight don't have enough communication.. but I'm not sure. I see him pretty much everyday except weekends. Please help me on these 2 subjects?
It isn't possible for one person to tell another how far to go.
The most important thing is that you feel comfortable doing what you do and that you don't feel pressured into doing things you don't want to do.
Be happy that you haven't had any fights. It is quite possible that you two are so well matched that you don't fight. As long as you are bothy happy and feel good about sharing feelings then everything is ok.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com