I just don't want to hurt anyone...

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have a question about getting closer to someone. Recently I realized I was attracted to one of my friends, who I had not thought of in that way before. And now I really want to be with this person.

Here's the problem, he's seeing this other girl "D" who he might end up going out with, but she didn't want to go out with him she just wanted to keep seeing him. I know for a fact they aren't intimate because she told him it wasn't right unless they were going out. But apparently she still likes him.

Now "D"'s ex-boyfriend, that you can tell she's still hung up on, just dumped his girlfriend. Well she says she'd never go back out with him to her friends but I'm not sure if she's truthful.

So now I don't know if I should wait to start hinting to my friend about me liking him incase he's going to ask the girl he's seeing out again. And I don't want to hurt "D" because she's a really nice girl and might get mad if I start pulling moves on him.

But apparently he told my friend at one point that he liked me alot but didnt think he had a chance with me. What do you think i should do? I've tried asking friends but they're opinions are biased because they want me to go for him, but they aren't taking "D"'s feelings in to consideration. PLEASE HELP ME!

Sorry for the novel but it wouldn't make sense if I did not include everything. Thank you in advance. Any help is appreciated.


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A good thing to do would be to ask "D."

This would answer a lot of questions and give you an idea of how to proceed.

Good luck! George

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