Getting her interested
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Theres a girl, same age as I am, and we've been going to the same school for three years. We know each other, but we're not exactly friends. The problem is that she has good guy friends, and i dont see any reason for her to say yes to me instead of her just asking one of her friends out. I was wondering, how can i get my "intentions" of going out across and what advice would you have for getting her to want to go out with me rather then her hoping for one of her closer friends to ask her out? Thanks alot for your time and patience, im sure alot of people owe you for what you've been helping them through.
A good way to get her intersted is to become her good friend.
Start this off gently. When you pass her in the hall, look her in the eyes, say in a clear voice "Hi" plus her name, and give her a big smile. Once you've done this for a while start adding conversation and you may be able to become her good friend that way.
Another approach is to simply walk up to her and ask her to go out... might work, but my advice is to use the longer way. But don't put this off, one of her friends might ask her out.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com