Am I Making a Terrible Mistake?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I'm interested in him but don't know how to let him know. Every time I see him I get really excited and nervous. I've been dropping very subtle hints but I don't think he's noticed. I'm afraid to go all out because I'm afraid (of rejection, embarassment, etc.) I can't get him out of my head, but at the same time I'm terrified! Is there a way to tell if he's shy vs. not interested?
A good way to find out if he is shy or if he doesn't care is to walk up and talk to him.
If he is shy, it will be obvious by the way he acts.
If you are too shy to do that try this approach: whenever you meet him in the hall, look him straight in the eyes, say hi plus his name, and give him a big smile.
If he is shy he will look away or weakly say hi back to you. If he is not shy but not interested, he will say hi but without much enthusiasm.
But don't give up on him because it is really difficult to always tell the difference.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com