He said he likes me but doesnt want any commitments
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
We went to the party..he was there and we danced..and we were having a good time.Hes not really a player..but he does like being the center of attention..He is very nice to me..He even invited me to his house once and we were alone together playing ps2 games. He is okay and basically Ive fallen in love with him...If you remember he is Drama Guy and its me the singer. I like him so much and at the party just before Valentines Day, he danced with me, we were having fun..i was having fun with friends and well..he called me and we danced and we kissed..and our friends cheered because they know how much i like him and one of my friends pulled him away and shouted at him saying "Dont lead her on!She loves you!" I pushed him slightly and got pissed off and Ran away to the toilets because i was so hurt. I love him..My friend told him what I feel for him..she told him that the kiss would mean the world to me and ti him it wont mean nothing. My friend said."Why dont you go out with her..shes perfect..shes beautiful what are you waiting for.?" and he said.."I wont go out with her because I dont want any commitments. I like her and I know shes beautiful but I dont want to be in a relationship because in single!"
What should I do..I havent spoken to him since then and i wont see him till we go back to school and thats in seven days time. How am i going to face him after what happened? Do you think the friendship we had is ruined? I dont know how to handle this..im so hurt and so in love.
please help me.
Treat him just like you treated him before. Act like nothing happened.
After all he wants no committment so it won't bother him one way or the other.
On the other hand, he may have started thinking about you and show more interested in you. So be prepared for anything.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com