She wont talk to me, and i want her back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
So my girlfriend and I broke up a week ago. She ended it with a text message saying that it was over, that she will always love me, and dont stop by her house or she will call the cops. I love my ex with all my heart and feel that she is my soulmate. She left all my stuff at my house and refuses to talk to me. I have tried to call and text her and she will not respond to me. I know i can not force her to talk to me, but im not sure what to do. We have broken up a few times before but she has bever gone this long without at least a text message to me. She claims that I am too controlling about her going out. I realize my issues now and have changed them for myself while also knowing that it could only help our relationship. She wont even talk to me to give me more closure. How do i win her back when she wont talk to me?
It's too early to try to get her back. As you said, she won't even talk to you.
Wait two weeks or so and contact her somehow (even if you have to write a letter). Ask her if she is willing to accept a phone call from you once a week so you can find out how she is doing. If she says yes, you can take advantage of the call to say that you still care for her. Be cheerful and don't discuss your relationship.
This will give her the space she needs and you the contact you need.
After a while ask her if you can consider yourselves friends again. Once friends there is no limit as to how the relationship can grow.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com