Lots of Questions for the Magic 8-Ball
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I like my old neighbor for 11 years and this is what he does to me:
1. how can you tell when a guy wants to go out with you? 2. what does it mean when a guy that you like and he likes you and sometimes he would stand with friends with a sad looking face and his arms cross down in front? 3.how can you when the guy wants you to make a move? 4. If you ask the guy you like: who do you like and he says his old neighbor and you guess a name and he said good guess then he says he was just playing what does that mean? 5. Wha t does it mean when you and the guy you like is on the interent at the sametime and then you get off and he does to? 6. What does it mean when the guy is on the net then you get on and stay on and when sees you on he gets off why is that? 7. How can you tell when the guy wants you to ask him out or to a school dance? 8.What does it mean if your friend find out that the guy you like and he likes you and tells two of his coworkers that you are his girlfriend but not you why is that? 9. What if you go to his work and he is not working but the guy he tolled something to he always look at you why is that? 10. How can you tell when the guy that likes you is afriad to talk to you in school and is shy?
Will you please help me with this I really want him so bad...
You are acting as if I am a Magic 8-Ball that somehow sees into your guy's brain and knows exactly why he does things :) While I can make general recommendations on a situation, to ask me "Why is he doing this one exact thing" is asking me to tell you why he is the way he is. Only he knows that!
If you have known this guy for 11 years, then hopefully you guys talk together! So if ANYONE knows why he is the way he is, YOU do. So talk to him more and find out! The only way to know why someone is doing something is to talk to him. And most ESPECIALLY the only way to know if someone likes you or how they feel about you is to talk to him.
I'm not saying to walk up to him in a crowd and say "Hey! Do you like me!" But if you guys spend time together, enjoy talking together, then obviously he does like you. People do not spend time talking to people they hate.
So talk with him more. Spend more time with him. Talk about your dreams and fears and other things that will help you two be closer together. Ask him about his dreams and fears. Find out what his hobbies are and actively encourage him in them. If he plays baseball, go watch his games! If he likes to do archery, learn more about archery. The more a part of his world you are, the closer you two will become.
And now that you guys are out doing things together, you are already sort of dating. So keep doing more, and hugging each other hello and goodbye, and you will find that pretty soon it IS dating.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com