It was painful enough the first time...
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My ex and I dated for six months before he said he needed to figure himself out and didn't know what he wanted. So fine, we break up, and I'm devastated for a bit, but I moved on. He didn't speak to me for about seven or eight months and then last night he all of the sudden contacts me. He asked me how life was and how is was and then he says "Not trying to piss you off, but I miss you"....it didn't piss me off, andi told him that. Really, I'm just confused as to what the heck is going on. I miss him too, but I'm not going back into a relationship that he might not be able to maintain. It was painful enough the first time...
If you don't want to risk getting back into a relationship stay away from him.
If you are willing to take the chance then become good friends with him and see what develops.
Right now you don't know what he is up to so it may not matter.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com