But now my head is just plain spinning
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
A bit of a follow up from a question I asked recently.
I was confused before, but now my head is just plain spinning. I had a date set with the girl that we thought obviously liked me, but the night before she cancelled with a pretty lame excuse. We rescheduled to the next week, and this time the night before she invited some people to be with us. She asked if it was alright with me, and I wasn't about to be a jerk in front of everyone so I said that would be ok.
We had fun hanging out, but now instead of getting the wave of signals I used to get from her, nothing. We still talk a bit when we see each other, but its much different. What happened?
Congratulations on overcoming your shyness and asking her out.
Now the bad part... not everyone you ask out is going to end up wanting to go out again. This seems to be what has happened. She isn't being as friendly as before as a signal not to ask her out again.
This is just my read on the situation... I could be completely wrong.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com