I'm deathly afraid I will look like the loser freshman
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
my best friend was into this guy and when she introduced me to him he started to like me. i still liked this other guy and we the guy i liked was sorta into me but he was growing out of it so the new attention felt really good. we and the guy my best friend liked hung out a few times and on the third time we hung out(we were always with ppl) he asked me out. i knew i still like the other guy but i thought maybe i could make him jealous. it didnt work. so my bf of the time we extremely sweet but i just didnt like him i would advoid him any chance i really got to and after teh third week he got the picture. he told me it wasnt working out and we broke up. i tried talking to him a few times but idk i felt really awkward talking to him. its been almost 3 months since we broke up. i started to have feeling for him after we broke up but i heard he like this girl he has always had a thing for but she doesnt like him. i like him but its not a full on crush like i had for the other guy. i want to start being his friend again but i dont know where to start without it seeming awkward and im deathly afraid i will look like the loser freshman who wants that older guy back even though i have ignored him at school
If you want to get him back you will have to lose that fear of looking like a loser freshman.
The way to become a friend again is to say hi to him whenever you see him and give him a big smile. Once you start talking again, you can try to make it a friendship.
Most people forgive easily and I suspect he will forgive you too.
Good luck, George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com