I'm straightening out my priorities
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I'm so hurt i dated this girl for 1 1/2 years, are first year was nothing but fun then i started letting my hobbies get the best of me and i started to loose interest in her then i broke up with her, but later that night i went back and wanted to talk about my hobbies and we did, but it started happening again and we talked it over and she wanted more of a relationship like we use to have. so we having a good relationship. then she dumped me after she talked to one of the students in my class 5 months after i dumped her. after she dumped me i found out she was unhappy and i hurt her soo much, i did nothing but cry after i heard about this then i realized my priorites are all wrong i was failing school, i wanted to ride my bike and she was at the the bottom of my list. Her breaking up with me was a reality check on my life and i'm straightening out my priorites and i told her about this and she doesn't want a relation ship with me anymore. but we still like we are best best of friends. we talk time on msn and in school, i love her soo much i just want to know what to do i want to be with her more than anything i feel horable for what i did and i understand why she broke up with me. please help me. i'm 18 she's 16
The best way to get her back is to do actions that back up your words.
Since she is now your priority, show that by spending time with her instead of other options. You have started doing that and she is probably starting to feel different about you.
Share your feelings with her as much as is possible. This will help her begin to trust you again as a possible boyfriend. You are in a very good position to get her back since you are best friends. Keep working at it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com