She says I'm an awesome guy

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
well im 17 and shes 16 but shes one of my best friends i know i love her although i have nothing to compare to i know because well i just feel great when shes arround, and i guess im the only one who thinks shes beautiful,i dont even really look at other girls anymore,shes the only one i think of,and just everything about her...but well i've never even asked a girl out and being a social outcast for most of my life(i've changed)i wouldnt even know a hint if it was obvious.well i spend almost all my free time with her well and her one friend she brings along, i've never let her down i do anything i can to help her,i've never turned down a chance to be with her. i've told her how i feel about her she hasnt pulled away she says i'm an awesome guy, and that when shes down she reads my emails shes saved and knows at least one person cares...but then when i asked her if she thinks shed go out with me first she said her life was too complicated(awhile ago and it was true),now she says she doesnt know what she wants and her emotions are confusing she says she wants to see me take chances and that she wants to help me do new things, i really don't want to miss out,but i don't want to lose her.i don't know what to you think she likes me? i want to ask her out but i dont know how or when i should do it when our other friends are there, shes with her friends, or on the phone or over messenger the last 2 seem tacky and what would i do on a date shes more experienced then me i don't want to disapoint her or do anything wrong what should i do? Advice
Since she thinks you are awsome and depends so much on you for emotional support, now is the time to tell her you really want to go out.

You don't seem to have access to her alone, so you will have to ask her on the phone. Don't be too shy about it... she already knows how you feel. This time tell her you really want to go out. If a dance is coming up ask her to go to it with you.

Good luck! George

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