I met this guy when I was in the seventh grade

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I met this guy when I was in the seventh grade, and I immediately fell head over heels inlove with him. Well he never would date me because he was the I guess "player" type who didnt want a girlfriend. But I was so young and he flirted with me all the time. i guess it made me feel good that someone cared about me. Well after I had known him for about a year we finally started dating, he took my virginity. We were together oh.. about 4 months when I went out of town for a week. While I was gone he cheated on me with my best friendin the whole world at my house!!!
So we broke up for like 2 weeks and then we ended up back together for about another month. Then one day I went to a friends house to see him there and he broke up with me, he said he didnt want a girlfriend. Well I was a mess I cried and cried and uhh it was horrible. anyways about 3 weeks lter i found out that her was dating my former friend that he cheated on me with. so i got mad, and moved on, and started dating this other guy. well my first love got in some trouble and had to go to jail for awhile and me and my new boyfriend were still together, but he broke up with me because he said he knew i would never look at him the way i did my ex. and he was right. well my family moved out of state. then last summer i went to visit the my old friends and i happen to see my ex. as soon as i did he started telling me how bad he messed up and how much hes been thinking about me and how much he really loves me. well i ended up saying oh.. i love u too! and i went back home. we talkted alot over the next few weeks and then he just stopped calling me out of the blue and i havent heard from him in like 6 months. but iknow i love him because he is all i ever think about. ive been inlove with this boy for almost 4 years now. please tell me what you think. and i really think he cares alot about me but he scared of a real relationship. help me please!!!

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With all the break ups, cheating, jail, and then not calling you for six months it isn't easy to figure this guy out.

At the least, he sounds unreliable. So if you got him back you would be facing a life of upsets.

Why hasn't he called for six months. Have you tried to find out? It is unusual behavior if you think he loves you.

Maybe he is the kind of guy who doesn't ever commit to anything and especially not to a long term relationship. He sounds like that type to me. I would consider you lucky if you don't hear from him again.

As hard as it is, you need to move on with your life and get over this guy. You will be much happier that way I think.

Good luck! George

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